We all need a back-up plan and reassurance when it comes to our goals. Sometimes failure is not an option, so it’s best to cover all possibilities and think of different plans if your first plan backfires. You can double your chances for success and even if this action still doesn’t help you achieve what you want, you will still have the satisfaction that you did your best.
Even if things don’t turn out the way you planned, you can still learn from your mistakes and come back with a foolproof plan that will bring you closer to what you desire. Get ready to learn how you can double your chances for success without sacrificing of compromising too many things in order to get what you want.
Motivation and the Unknown
What seems hard at first is the unknown. We don’t know what lies ahead, we don’t know how some things can turn out, we don’t know how some people can react to different situations etc. You have to be prepared for everything. Success comes with motivation. You have to turn any difficult task into a habit. Once you get used to something, it won’t seem that hard and the road to your success will be defined by hard work, motivation, patience and the ability to face changes and unpredictable situations without panicking or giving up.
Role Models and Competition
You shouldn’t see your goals as a competition. Why should you have a role model and compare your unique life, talents, dreams, goals and abilities with that person? The pressure of a competition and the constant comparison with a role model can drag you down. You should see success as something personal, unique. You should set realistic goals and you can admire different persons but never compare with them. They are different and this not the case of being better than somebody else. This is the case of being a better version of yourself.
Discipline and Planning
Even if you can’t predict how many situations can turn out, you can use discipline and also plan things ahead. By sticking to a schedule, by following the activities and tasks you think will lead you to achieve many great things, you double your chances for success. This is why you need to be a little bit more organized and discipline yourself, getting rid of distractions and improving yourself till you manage to keep your flaws under control.
Keep Your Cool
You need to act like a psychologist, when it comes to succeeding. You need to analyze your thoughts, actions, behavior, dreams and needs. By knowing what you’re good at and what needs improving, you can take the necessary measures, know how to be calm when things don’t go as planned and rethink a situation if you need some certain adjustments along the way. You can also go see a therapist for a few sessions to better understand yourself, understand the underlying reason behind some of your actions and reactions.